By Elizabeth Kubler-Ross, and David Kessler
The Worst Things to Say to Someone in Grief:
• At least she lived a long life, many people die young
• He is in a better place
• She brought this on herself
• There is a reason for everything
• Aren’t you over him yet, he has been dead for a while now
• You can have another child still
• She was such a good person
• God wanted her to be with him
• I know how you feel
• She did what she came here to do and it was her time to go
• Be strong
The Best Things to Say to Someone in Grief:
• I am so sorry for your loss.
• I wish I had the right words, just know I care.
• I don’t know how you feel, but I am here If can help in anyway.
• You and your loved one will be in my thoughts and prayers.
• My favorite memory of your loved one is…
• I am always just a phone call away
• Give a hug instead of saying something
• We all need help at times like this, I am here for you
• I am usually up early or late, if you need anything
• Saying nothing, just be with the person