I did a Medium session for a woman and her mother this morning. Last night and this morning a male spirit kept prepping me for the discernment by telling me to ask for the ring one of them would have. It’s not something I normally do, but I did just to make sure I had the right soul connecting to the right people. So I brought up the ring that belonged to the spirit they wanted to hear from. I was surprised when, instead of being given a male ring, I was given a female’s ring.
To add to the confusion I brought up a woman that neither of them knew. All the confusion would be cleared up in due time though.
When I began the discernment a man did come through and take “center stage.” It turns out he was Amanda’s mother’s father. He had messages for his wife and daughter. After he was done and pulled his energy away, I looked for the woman I initially brought and she was nowhere to be found. I asked, and confirmed that the ring I was given was bought at an antique store.
My advice is that if you ever buy an antique, cleanse it’s energy by smudging it. If you don’t know how there are people out there who do and will be happy to do it for you, usually for a reasonable fee. The way to cleanse a ring is to simply put it in a bag or box of sea salt for a week. Doing this will allow you to imbue only your energy on it.
When I began to bring another soul through, it was someone who claimed to be a sister of Amanda. Amanda told me this was correct.
I was then shown “Tiny Tim,” a icon of the 60’s who had a hit song entitled, “Tip Toe Through the Tulips.” Whenever I see Tiny it’s a warning to do just that.
Initially Amanda’s sister didn’t want to communicate with me. Slowly but surely she opened up. I found out that she took her own life. She also told me that she did so on, or around, her father’s birthday. When I mentioned this it was the first and only time Amanda openly wept. Her sister wanted to apologize for ruining her father’s birthday. She was buried on that day.
A number of things were resolved today. Amanda’s sister made it clear they had nothing to feel guilty about. She died from a disease. Not a disease that’s easily recognizable or easy to detect, but a disease nonetheless. She also wanted to make it known that she was not judged nor condemned for what she did.
When it comes to discernments, for me, suicides are so hard to do because the energy is so heavy. One of the first things I’m told by those who have taken their own lives is that they weren’t aware of how much pain it would cause those they leave behind. Now they have eternity to make peace with themselves, and they want you to make peace with yourself.
As the session was ending Amanda’s mother asked me if she would ever see her daughter again.
“Absolutely,” I told her. “You are still her mother, and she’s still your daughter. She took her life away from you, not her love.”
I feel your peace.
Anthony