I do a lot more readings and discernments than I write about … I’m just not comfortable talking about what was said in private. I’ve decided to write this because I’ve noticed a trend in the discernment sessions (where I reconnect people with loved ones they’ve lost). Whether it’s fact to face, or over the phone, most of those on the Other Side who are bringing their loved ones to me, have taken their own life.
These sessions are, for me, very difficult. The energy of suicide is heavy, as heavy as it gets. Last Saturday I did a discernment for a woman in California, over the phone. The Sunday before I kept getting the urgent feeling that her “daughter” needed to be there too. It was not only a feeling, but a thought, a persistent thought. As usual, I had no clue why, but I found out at the time for the reading.
Nancy (not her real name) and her daughter Stacy (not her real name) were on speaker phone for the session. There was a reluctance on the part of the spirit to come through initially, but then I heard a, “Hi Stacy!”
“Who are you?” I asked.
“I’m her sister.”
“Stacy, I have your sister here.”
That’s how the discernment began. Even though she and her mother disagreed, Jane (not her real name) kept insisting that she was responsible for her own passing. Later, it came out that Jane didn’t die until 18 days after she took a lethal dose of drugs and alcohol. Then I saw a plug being pulled from a socket, my symbol that someone had chosen to “pull the plug.”
Both Stacy and Nancy were dealing with guilt for different reasons. Nancy and Stacy had an argument the day Jane started down the path that led to her eventual passing. Stacy felt she should have left with her … perhaps Jane wouldn’t have done what she did, if she had.
Jane’s messages to them. “I’m okay. I love you. Let go of the guilt!”
I learned recently that my “job” isn’t to make people feel better – it’s just to pass on messages. The “job” of those on the Other Side is to guide people through their grief. Our job is to put one foot in front of the other as we move through our grief, no matter how those we loved crossed over from this life to the next.
I feel your peace,
Anthony
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