The ten best, and worst, things to say to someone in grief

By Elizabeth Kubler-Ross, and David Kessler

The Worst Things to Say to Someone in Grief:

• At least she lived a long life, many people die young

• He is in a better place

• She brought this on herself

• There is a reason for everything

• Aren’t you over him yet, he has been dead for a while now

• You can have another child still

• She was such a good person

• God wanted her to be with him

• I know how you feel

• She did what she came here to do and it was her time to go

• Be strong

The Best Things to Say to Someone in Grief:

• I am so sorry for your loss.

• I wish I had the right words, just know I care.

• I don’t know how you feel, but I am here If can help in anyway.

• You and your loved one will be in my thoughts and prayers.

• My favorite memory of your loved one is…

• I am always just a phone call away

• Give a hug instead of saying something

• We all need help at times like this, I am here for you

• I am usually up early or late, if you need anything

• Saying nothing, just be with the person

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